5 Tips for How to Have the Perfect Threesome

1. We have several Missing and/or Incomplete conversations between us we are avoiding.*

2. We talk openly about our sexual desires, fantasies, interests, & turn-on’s/off’s.*

3. There are no secrets between us; Candor and straight talk is our way with one another.*

4. We are comfortable talking about anything without judgment, defensiveness or criticism and with mutual respect for differences to seek understanding.*

5. I communicate authentically (total honesty), in ways that make me transparent (openness) and vulnerable (fully known) to my partner.*

1. My partner knows what excites and turns me on/off sensually/sexually.*

2. We both feel free to explore, be creative and use our imagination sexually.*

3. My partner and I discuss our fantasies, needs and interests sensually/sexually. *

4. I feel loved, cared for, nurtured and physically attracted to my partner.*

5. Our relationship is both romantic and passionate. *

1. We have specific and meaningful ways we connect and share our love for each other.*

2. There are regular things we do that make me and our relationship feel special/unique.*

3. I know what my partner needs and they understand mine for how to feel cherished, loved and secure – we have routines for connecting that soothe and draw us close. *

4. I look forward to reunions with my partner if I feel distant emotionally and/or physically.*

5. During down time we do things we both enjoy and value together. *