Going on a First ‘Date’ with Swinger Couples? Here’s What to Expect

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It’s only natural to be a little nervous on a first date, and that anxiety can be enhanced for those in the swingers lifestyle.  After all, you’ll be meeting more than one person in most situations, meaning there are double the people to engage and impress. Here are some first date tips for swinger couples.

Decide Where to Meet

Choose a quiet place for first dates that let you enjoy a conversation. Good choices might include a hotel lobby or swingers-clubs/">swingers club (where you can have sexy time if the date goes well). Some couples prefer to meet out of town where they are less likely to be seen by their vanilla friends, so keep in mind how private you and your dates would like to be when meeting up for swinging.

What Should You Talk About with Lifestyle Couples?

It’s best to avoid high-intensity topics like money, politics and religion. Keep things more tame by talking about sports, traveling or even the weather to begin warming up the conversation. You might also want to avoid asking too many personal questions of your dates such as where they work, where they live, whether they have children, etc. Respect their privacy, as you can learn more later if things go well.

Be Ready with Secret Signs

Partners need to have secret signals that indicate whether it’s time to bail or whether it’s time to see if their dates are ready to take things to the bedroom. A quick text from the bathroom also works! Don’t feel bad about being honest with them if there’s no physical connection, as it is far better to just let everyone move on if the spark doesn’t exist.

Transitioning Into Sexy Time

So, things went well between both swinger couples and moving on to romance time is pending. Consider getting a hotel room or going to a swingers lifestyle club rather than taking them to your home. After all, you are just getting to ‘know’ one another, so it might be too early to share addresses.

Ready to play? Of course you are, so get out there and meet new lifestyle couples for new experiences confidently with these swinging first date tips.
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