Video: Introducing Smart Erotica, The Modern Couple’s Playbook

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Relationship dynamics are evolving faster than ever before, and it can be overwhelming and confusing — especially in the world of consensual non-monogamy. We recognized this need for guidance in the lifestyle, and have developed the Smart Erotica Program and the first-ever science-backed relationship and intimacy tool — The LIC® (Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up).

In this video, we introduce the Smart Erotica Program and the 7 Conversations of The LIC that every couple should have. These discussions are not only important for you as a couple to build more open and honest communication with each other; they’ll also help you explore other relationships together. We’ve provided it exclusively here on SDC completely free so that you can get started on building your best relationship and sex life!

Smart Erotica Step 1: The LIC Quiz

Below you’ll find links to all of the Smart Erotica resources so that you and your partner can start working toward the most amazing relationship a modern couple can have! But before you dive in, you’ll want to learn more about the program and make sure you set aside enough time with your partner to work together on each step. Trust us — it’s worth it! And just wait until you reap the rewards.

Get to know us and how we developed this program in this video.

Read more about the full Smart Erotica Program here.

The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up (LIC®) is explained in this article, and you can watch the video about The LIC® here

To start the program, take The LIC® Quiz.

The 7 Conversations of The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up

Once you’ve taken the quiz, follow the series below. For each step, watch the video and then read the corresponding article for the conversation guides.

Introducing The LIC®: Watch & Read

  1. Alignment: Watch & Read
  2. Unfiltered Communication: Watch & Read
  3. Conflict: Watch & Read
  4. Sexuality vs. Eroticism: Watch & Read
  5. Boundaries: Watch & Read
  6. Agreements: Watch & Read
  7. Routines & Rituals: Watch & Read

Who We Are

We — Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro — work with couples committed to having an extraordinary relationship of their choosing and would like to be your relationship tour guides as you embark on the journey ahead. You can learn more about us in this video. Please reach out to us if you have any questions or want more information!

Live passionately,

Dr. Jay and Liseth
Soul-Mates for Life