Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual friends.
I am so thrilled about this podcast!
I asked John and Jackie Melfi of Openlove101.com and coletteclubs.com to join me for an episode all about open relationships!
They were recently interviewed by CNN’s Lisa Ling for an episode of “This is Life,” which, if you haven’t seen it yet, was a very unique glimpse into the world of swinging. That episode covered swingers during the Naughty in Nawlins swingers event this past year, and also included my friends Taara Rose and James of Sex Uninterrupted and Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce, among other swingers whose lives have changed for the better by opening up their relationships.
Much in that same spirit, John and Jackie and I talk about what being in the lifestyle means to us, as individuals and within our own relationships. Jackie and I talk about the ways in which the swinging lifestyle has contributed to female empowerment and how we have evolved beautifully within the lifestyle. Both of us gals were also recently featured in ASN Lifestyle Magazine’s special edition of Influential Women of The Lifestyle, along with other inspirational femme fatales, it was intriguing to hear Jackie speak about her experiences as a female swinger and how it’s quite contrary to what people outside the lifestyle think about women’s role within it.
In This Episode
We also get personal and delve into John and Jackie’s relationship as they tell me about their first swinging experience!
In this episode, we also debunk myths about open relationships about who really takes the lead in sexual scenarios and help prove that the swinging lifestyle isn’t all about sex.
We also offer advice for newbies who have just opened up their relationships or are about to start doing so, with tips on how to talk to your partner before going to a swinger’s club for the first time, how to manage your and your partner’s expectations, and what to do when swinging goes wrong.
So, if you want to know about what it’s really like to be in an open relationship and the swinging lifestyle and want to know how you can start exploring and having pleasurable experiences with your partner while maintaining a healthy relationship, tune in to this episode!