Swinger Couples & The Secret Communication Codes They Share

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When swinger couples swing, they tend to have a deeper sense of communicating with non-verbal signals. However, not all swinging couples have mastered the art of getting a point across clearly while managing to be discreet.

And let’s be honest…not all situations work out when meeting new playmates, and sometimes participants might have a change of heart during a date. On the flip side, you might be ready to go all the way and need to communicate that to your partner. Some messages you might want to send include:

  • All is great, I’m ready to play!
  • I’m not into this scene, lets go.
  • I’m indifferent, you decide.
  • Feeling happy, but no ready to delve into the physical just yet.
  • Had to much to drink, slowing down here.

Much drama can be avoided with a few set code words or actions as decided by a couple prior to engaging with the swinging community. Let’s explore a few effective methods of communicating in secret with your partner.

Secret Codewords for Swinging Couples

One excellent way to make your feelings known is to have an agreement with significant others, such as code words. For example, ask your lover to order a drink that they know you don’t like. This means that things aren’t working out and it’s time to move on. In turn, you can ask for a favorite sexy beverage to express your enthusiasm.

Some couples might opt to mention specific cities. Swingers might mention a city that isn’t known for its beauty or attractiveness, such as Detroit. (No offense, Detroit!) Another great code city is to mention Sydney, as in “I’m ready to go down under with these peeps.” Of course, each swinger couple needs to find their own tricks of the trade, which might also employ the use of secret signals.

Sending Secret Signals

Occasionally, in a busy club or restaurant, sending code words might not work out so well, bringing out the need for physical signals. Sometimes, when married couples swing, they have an arrangement in which they swap their wedding ring to the other hand as a sign that ‘all is good’ for the swap. However, keeping it on the appropriate hand and spinning it around the finger could mean that you aren’t game.

Another secret signal can be a gentle pinch or scratch to your partner to get their attention. Usually, these let them know that you are uncomfortable to some degree, yet the signs aren’t typically noticed by another couple or potential playmate.

Keep in mind that there is always a good old-fashioned bathroom text message. It’s a practical approach, discreet, and gives you the chance to literally communicate what’s on your mind. Your partner can always make up a story to explain the text as an emergency that you need to attend to. Hence, a kind and gentle letdown for others while getting you out with ease.

Just remember, be clear with your partner about your code words and physical indicators to ensure that there’s no miscommunication that can cause problems at home at the end of the day.

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