Variety in Sex Makes Hotwives Happy

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Variety in Sex Makes Hotwives Happy

Current statistics prove that open marriages and swinging develop social ties and satisfy sexual needs that are commonly associated with restrictive middle-class backgrounds.

The Truth About Fantasies

One comedian recently made the joke that he thought, “Same-sex marriage meant having the same sex with the same person for the rest of your life.”

That opening may lead you to believe that variety means lots of partners and for some; it is a fact, especially when browsing the internet for swinger sites. However, the variety that drives my books is the number of fantasies that generate hot raging orgasmic sex with the person you love. Fantasies make the greatest aphrodisiac.

Bring up the topic of variety in sex with anyone and the most common assumption is that theory is male-oriented. Facts disprove this. This is one of those myths that rank up there with size matters, an idea mostly shared by men. Truth is, a really great orgasm happens when both partners engage in hot foreplay that includes sharing fantasies, and in some cases sharing actual experiences. It is also a proven fact that women love their fantasies. In one study it was reported that only five percent of all women say they do not need fantasies, and their husband gives them all they need to be satisfied. I have to wonder if this is the group of women who have never had a real orgasm. For the other ninety-five percent of us that do have fantasies, my books may have some ideas.

My main character, Adele Walker, shares a very typical history of many wives. She’s the safe woman next door that has only had sex with one man. No one would ever suspect for a moment some of the things she thinks about. Her love for her husband never weans. However, she has deep passions that started with a casual boyfriend years before she married. Thoughts of what she missed play with her. The idea of creating memories instead of regrets begin to shape her fantasies and her reality in actions.

This is not uncommon. In fact, there are tons of studies that state developmental changes for middle-aged couples suggest couples not only engage in a long list of hotwife fantasies, but they take it up a notch.  Current statistics prove that open marriages and swinging develop social ties and satisfy sexual needs that are commonly associated with restrictive middle-class backgrounds. These studies have suggested that in an era where about 50% of marriages end in divorce, there is almost an equal percentage of extra-marital affairs. The shared experience of opening a marriage can sometimes bring the marriage partners closer together. Online sites have recognized this phenomenon and capitalized on what may be a significantly growing activity. Swinging. Such sites as SDC.com show on their homepage that tens of thousands of couples join each week. They even show the daily sign-up statistic, and when seeing these numbers, one would think their entire neighborhood is full of swinging couples that keep their secret lives carefully protected.

https://www.sdc.com/relationship/swingers/variety-in-sex-makes-hotwives-happy/

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