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We discuss the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We’ll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion positively impacts your relationship. A good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up is necessary. We’ll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation, such as using porn, hints, turn-ons / kinks, or even podcasts.
How to Have “THE” Conversation
Having “the” conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It’s important to be empathetic, and reassuring, and to listen to your partner’s response, whether it’s a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you’re not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?
- How do you have the FIRST Conversation?
- I’m afraid to SAY what I’m Thinking
- What’s your “In”?
- Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
- Testing the Relationship
- Listening Skills are CRITICAL!
- Being Okay with “No”