Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends.
Ready to get to know my Lexual self a little better?
As an advocate, educator, and sex, relationship, and open lifestyle coach, it’s my mission to help you strip away all the shame and fear so that you can feel free to pursue the most exciting, fulfilling sex life and relationships that you desire and deserve.
I’ve taken my passion for helping singles and couples spice up their sex life and find amazing partners and hook-ups to become the erotica author of the book Mating Season, a collection of 10 sizzling erotic stories to help set your imagination and sex life on fire, and my latest short erotica story, Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games.
I was honored to be a guest on the Mizzy Bender Show recently, where we talked about all things open lifestyle, erotica, being “too much,” and so much more in her podcast episode, Let’s Get Lexual with Lexi Sylver.
Here’s a little excerpt / teaser of our chat:
Mizzy was one of the four guest speakers I invited to celebrate the one-year anniversary of Mating Season. During the anniversary event, I asked her to read part of one of my erotic stories called “Trick Shot.” Listening to the fabulous Mizzy bring this story to life was such a sexy experience and full-circle moment.
Since then, we’ve formed such an amazing relationship, and I absolutely love and cherish her for allowing me to come on her show and share more about myself, my lifestyle, my beliefs, and my coaching!
The idea of the open lifestyle, swinging, tuning into your Lexuality, and talking openly about sex, toys, and everything that lights you the fuck up can be uncomfortable for some people. I think so often, sex and sexuality is made out to be this taboo topic because nobody wants to talk about it.
But I’m here to bust down those walls and bring sexuality back into the forefront of our minds, because it’s not something to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. Hell, sexuality is part of our human fucking nature!
I’m so grateful to connect with people like Mizzy who share my beliefs and are willing to “go there” with me. In this podcast episode, we talk all about giving the open lifestyle a chance and being open about sex, our desires, and tuning into our real Lexuality. I dive into my own experiences and how I balance work and play.
Hint: it’s with a lot of toys, a naughty imagination, a great partner, and of course, my erotic stories that help me keep it juicy!
We also talk about marketing and how to marry the two worlds of sexuality and authentic marketing, despite all of the challenges and censorship of content these days. It’s all about staying true to who you are and getting your message out into the world by pushing the boundaries of social media and the online space.
As a recovering people pleaser, I often find myself getting caught in the headspace of “Am I too much?” It’s normal… we all question ourselves, but what I’ve realized is, it’s fucking okay if not everybody likes me or agrees with my mission or content. I AM a lot, and that’s what makes me fucking AMAZING!
I am no longer willing to waste my energy on trying to please everyone. I am here to pour my heart, soul, and sexy energy into the people that do connect with and appreciate my brand and my mission.
In this episode, I talk about how to make your business work and thrive while staying true to who you are, your beliefs, your passions, and not letting anyone bring you down or alter what you do.
My love for the open lifestyle and sexuality shines through in everything I do and in my coaching for singles and couples, and I refuse to let anyone bring me down, because there are so many people out there who relate to what I have to say, who need what I have to offer, and who crave better sex and LEXUALITY.
If you’re ready to learn more about my story and get Lexual with Mizzy and I, make sure to give “Lets Get Lexual with Lexi Sylver” a listen in the player above!
You can connect with Mizzy here on her SDC page!
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