Bisexual and swinging

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Bisexual, Hints, Tips, Q&A
Useful hints, tips, and questions and answers on how to turn your BI fantasies into reality. Many ladies fantasize about trying a BI experience. Many men also fantasize about seeing their partner with another lady. This fantasy is one of the easiest fantasies to fulfill in the swingers lifestyle, mainly due to the fact that many ladies in the swingers lifestyle are bisexual and very eager to help couples fulfill this fantasy, but if you are new to the swingers lifestyle, attempts will often fail. This is the hardest fantasy to fulfill if you are not a member of a lifestyle club.


Are you looking for a single BI woman?
We ask this question to couples hundreds of times a year. Many couples have been struggling for years to find a single BI woman with little or no luck! Single BI ladies who are willing to get together with a couple to share an MFF experience are rare! Out of desperation, many couples lie to other couples, telling couples that they are looking for a foursome when in reality they are only looking for the BI lady for a tourist or MFF experience. Please don’t lie to couples to get what you want, it won’t be long before it comes true!

Bisexual ladies abound in the swingers lifestyle and have been around for many generations, so why does it get hard to make contact? Especially in the swingers lifestyle it’s a couple sport. When you try to find matching singles (male or female), it becomes much more difficult. Many ladies who are new to the swingers lifestyle want to try the BI experience FF or MFF, but don’t want to share their partner with another lady or don’t want another man present. Often the male partner who is new to the swingers lifestyle doesn’t want to share his female partner with other men.

If there are so many bisexual ladies, why don’t they want to play with us? The answer is very simple. Ask yourself this question we asked the lady of a couple who were looking for a BI woman to play with them. Because you’re bisexual and want to experiment in an MFF meeting, why don’t you come and play with us? Her immediate reaction was, “I’m not leaving my husband or partner to play with another couple!” So put yourself in the shoes of the other married BI ladies you tried to ask for an MFF with your partner or husband. If you’re not willing to play with another couple to experience a bisexual woman, don’t expect other ladies to take the opportunity to answer your request.

Many ladies who are active in the swingers lifestyle want to be the first to play in fours! Many trios or FF-games are abundant with active swing couples, but the MEMORY is that they share the experience as a couple.

If you as a couple are not willing to share in the same environment, your chances of arranging a FF or MFF experience are greatly reduced! We see and experience hundreds of tourist or MFF meetings each year, but we play with active couples and share much more than just the tourist or MFF meetings. The easiest and quickest way to experience a FF or MFF encounter is at larger swing parties, where 10 or more couples participate in group sexual activities, such as a local club or a private party.

DO NOT put your female partner in a situation where she feels pushed or pressured into playing with another couple she doesn’t feel comfortable with! Most tourist or MFF meetings naturally take place at larger group parties without large-scale attempts to plan the entire sexual event. You will have a lot of fun and feel much more comfortable in a larger group and with more experienced swingers, compared to meeting a new couple for the first time and trying to convince them that you only want a FF or MFF experience.

If you lie to a couple about having a FF or MFF experience, the evening will usually not go so well and the couple that you did this will never come to you again and will definitely pass on your name. Some couples wonder why they were able to get one tourist or MFF experience and tell us they can’t find any more willing couples or partners. If you’ve hurt a couple in the past, it won’t be long before you’ve used up potential matches with other couples.

In many cases, couples are looking for a lady to be their little sex kitten to offer them sexual pleasures. This is similar to single men asking the same thing or couples in the swingers lifestyle asking for what they want or what they can get for themselves from the swingers lifestyle. Swinging is mainly about sharing partners with other partners in a give and take adventure. When attitudes change into what we offer another couple or the swingers lifestyle, you will receive much more than your imagination thought possible. What is abundant in the swingers lifestyle are BUYING and most ladies are BI. Think about what you can offer other people, not what we can get from other couples.

Ask and you will receive!
Ladies will want to feel comfortable with each other before they start experimenting. The larger the group of swingers you know, the greater the chance of finding a matching participant.

A misconception of many people about BI-women is that most Bi-women prefer female playmates over male playmates. The opposite is true. Most Bi-women prefer men first! The BI experience for most women is a bonus and is easy to find in the swingers scene.

Bi men, not gay or gay!
Many people have the wrong impression of a BI man or BI woman. Gays or homosexuals prefer their own sex in the first place, but usually the BI male or BI female prefers the opposite sex in the first place and especially the same sex as an extension of their sexual experiments with the right person.

Just like the ladies who have fantasized about experimenting with the same sex, men are no different. The ladies can have a lot of fun with it, just like the men like to look at you with another lady. Most of the male sexual play in clubs can be very subtle. You’ll see that women suck two cocks at the same time. If your cock is in a lady’s hot mouth at the same time as her husband’s cock, very few men will say no! Some ladies like the feeling of two dicks in their pussy at the same time. Three people having an orgasm at the same time is quite exciting and different. Mutual masturbation while the ladies are playing with each other.

Many men in the scene have indicated to be interested in experimenting with the same sex. When the right circumstances arise, they are open to try new things. Just like with BI ladies, the BI men choose the opposite sex in the first place! Experimenting with the right male partner is of secondary importance, but when an opportunity arises, many men are open to try something, at least once.

Many men and women in the swingers lifestyle are eliminated by the thought that two men have intercourse with each other. It is a growing acceptance of seeing some forms of sexual play between men. Experimenting with the swingers lifestyle can take many different forms of sexual play. If a man rubs his glans on the clit of a horny lady, some men may love the feeling of a man licking his glans and licking the lady’s clit at the same time.

Many women fantasize that their partner will masturbate in front of others, especially if another man helps.

Another fantasy for the ladies and the men is to masturbate another of the same sex. Many men are enabled to watch their ladies play same-sex games, the ladies are no different in wanting to watch another male game and turn off their male partner.

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